In your previous show you were discussing the internet scam
regarding, in short, 'you watched porn and I recorded you masturbating
to it, now pay me a bitcoin'. You have previously mentioned other recent
scams, such as pig butchers, but there is one I have personally
encountered and after some research online, others have as well that you
have not mentioned. Here is my story:
I was 25
when this occurred about a few months ago, now 26, male on a dating app
called Hinge. If you are unfamiliar, it's your standard dating app but
seems to be less filled with bots and can have more genuine connections
(six likes per day, versus 50 or whatever Tinder allows), I have at
least had success with going on dates using it.
I
matched with a girl who was 23 and we talked on the app for probably 2
days every hour or so, the responses on the app were not immediate nor
vague, they were responding to the specifics of the conversation. After a
while, we exchanged text numbers. This is where the first red flag
occurred to me because I prefer to use Snap Chat as a messaging service
(it's the superior messaging service in my opinion) but she claimed not
to have it, which is strange for our age bracket, but oh well maybe she
wasn't that active on social media, so I brushed it off.
We
texted for a bit until she asked for a picture of me to have as a
contact photo, so I sent a previous pic of me that I thought was
attractive and made me look good and said she should send one back. She
sent back a selfie along with NSFW pics of her, which, hey, can you
blame me for being excited? She tried to initiate dirty talking but I
was with family so I was suggesting to talk later. She stopped
responding at this point.
About five hours
later, I get a text from an unknown number from someone claiming to be
the girl's father and the story he told is among the lines of "my
daughter got into a fight with myself and my wife resulting in us taking
her phone and seeing you have been texting her. She is 16 and when I
saw she was texting you, she threatened to kill herself. I am sitting in
the hospital with my daughter and I am going to press charges against
you, you sick pedophile bastard". At this point I freaked out and
responded saying that her profile said she was 23 and that I no longer
wish to have contact with her because she lied about her age and that it
is a huge understanding.
The individual
responded with a full paragraph that was far too fast that it is at this
point I thought it was a scam. Something along the lines of "son, if
you know what's good for you you will make this right otherwise I will
ruin your life for being a pedophile, etc, etc". It was at this point I
started looking online and found this reddit thread where the scenario
was exactly the same:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Scams/comments/1bmyndc/met_someone_on_dating_app_she_send_nudes/
According
to the reddit post, a phone call from a local police officer was
imminent in the next hour so now convinced this was a scam, I was ready.
The phone call came through claiming to be a detective of the St. Paul
PD advising that I should pay the father of said girl the money he is
requesting to avoid being labeled a sex offender. I asked for his badge
number and then hung up, later confirming with the St. Paul PD that this
was not a legit badge number. This wasn't some foreign accent. This was
someone born in the US and had all the lingo to make it authentic. If
they didn't have that quick reply on the dad's texts, I probably would
have fallen for it.
The reddit post I put above
mentions the numbers being all over the place, but that was not the
case for me. All three numbers, the girl, dad, and police, were all from
612 area codes, where I live (MN). This scam is by far the most
advanced scam I have ever seen and I want to make sure others my age
using dating apps to meet others, are aware of it.
TL;DR
- match with girl on dating app, she sends you nudes, later get text
from her "dad" she is underage and claiming she attempted suicide,
"police" later calls saying you should pay dad to avoid pedophile
accusations
Love your show and keep up the good work.
Regards and God Bless,
Sam